Nic Sheff & Jessica Lahey

Program Takeaway:

Acclaimed authors Sheff and Lahey explored the myths, facts, risk factors and stigma around substance abuse disorder and mental health challenges based on their research and experience in recovery.

The vast majority of addicted kids are caught in a powerful self-perpetuating cycle of self-medicating to reduce pain, anxiety and stress. Data tells us that the younger kids are when they start using drugs and alcohol the higher the risk of substance abuse disorder. Early use also damages developing brains—which don’t fully develop until mid-to-late 20s—and makes kids more likely to suffer lifelong concerns.

Risk factors for substance use include a family history (a 50-60% risk factor), childhood trauma, and social and learning challenges. Spend time getting to know your child so you can watch for changes in their behavior or friend group. If your teen says even the smallest thing to open the door to a conversation, take advantage of that. Adults need to understand that offering teens alcohol at a younger age, to help them moderate future consumption, can produce the opposite effect and put kids and friends in harm’s way. Parents must also educate themselves on the addictive nature of marijuana and the very real risk factors that come with regular use. Trust your instincts. If you think there is a problem, reach out to your child’s school or another professional to seek help as soon as possible. There is hope in recovery.